Why do we settle? This shows us that we are up there on your mental priority list and that you value our thoughts. What is the matter with us?
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Not only guys like when a girl is finny, but also the other way around. Guys appreciate girls who have a certain originality in their thoughts, and with whom they can not only laugh and have fun, but also talk and share opinions. Girls who are smart and can take good decisions themselves are very attractive. A positive girl is able to love herself and, therefore, to love her man, she protects her inner happiness, joy and good mood, and this positive qualities give her a lot of energy which is very attractive.
And another simple tip is — smile. She is attentive, able to listen and give an appropriate feedback…guy will look forward to spend more time with this kind of girl. They are determined, strong and responsible…and most men can see them only as good business partners, and not as a loving soulmate for creating a family.
Men and women are very different, physically, emotionally and in many aspects — this is why they complete each other. When a girl behaves like a guy, she is more likely to be treated as just a pal, a friend and not a charming soulmate. Femininity can mean a lot of things: Especially in the beginning of relationship this quality can be really attractive. Give him space for imagination and he will look forward to know more. A mysterious girl seems more interesting to most guys, as it gives them something to figure out.
But over-secrecy is not what I mean. Usually, if a guy looks for a life partner, he looks for a certain important trait of character — kindness. In the case of longterm relationship, the good and attractive looks go onto second place and the guy falls in love with the inner beauty, good qualities and kindness of his partner.
She is comforted in knowing that when she is faithful and thankful during trials and hardships, that she will safely come out of the storm even more prepared and sharpened for a spiritual promotion. Even if she does feel afraid, she does what she has been called to do anyways.
Being bold and courageous in the middle of fear has produced great victories throughout history. She always lets her faith be bigger than her fear. Wisdom She knows that as His royal daughter, the words she speaks comes with great responsibility and impact, even to those she does not know are listening.
Therefore, all who encounter her will be blessed because of her. Gossip, slander, idle talk and negativity are strangers to her lips. Centered in The True Love: She fears respects , honors and loves The Lord with all her heart, mind and soul.
She knows that she can not be the radiant woman he destined her to be without centering her life around His peace. Discerning In situations regarding business, friends or relationships, she is discerning in what seems to be a good thing and what is a God thing. She makes decisions based on prayer, guidance from mentors, and scripture. Humble She knows that pride and ego are the root of disaster or disappointment. She always allows other people to sing her praises rather than bragging on herself.
Leads She counsels younger women with a good listening ear, a compassionate heart and a voice of truth. She inspires others to follow her vision through servant leadership and creativity. Temperance She moderates her feelings, emotions and alcohol. She is not the girl passed out on the couch at a party, she is the girl picking her up and putting her to bed.
She always thinks before she acts and looks before she leaps. Stands for Justice She speaks up for those who can not speak for themselves. She defends those who are defenseless and she has a heart for restoring justice.
Honest She knows the liberating and healing power in revealing her struggles and shame. She is honest with those who mistreat her, letting them know that she only tolerates respect, just as she respects them. Peaceful She will confront a situation head-on in privacy. Mentorship She is humble and wise in knowing that she will never know everything there is to know.
She has a thirst for learning and growing, so she invites advice and sound counsel from solid mentors. Authentic She is true to herself and always gives credit where credit is due. She cares greatly for her friends and never uses them for selfish reasons. This list is primarily based on the Proverbs No woman is perfect and believe me, I am not all these things all the time.
Start with one per day, you could even write yourself reminders in your phone or post-its on your mirror to remind you of the woman you were are created and enabled to be. You were born to stand out. Hi Kristen, thank you, this is such a gift!!! Who you are does not change from person to person or situation to situation.
Intelligence is about knowledge, but even more so about emotions. In being aware of your emotional patterns you are endowed with the flexibility to handle challenge and change, allowing you to unlock smart solutions to your problems. With a well-rounded intelligence you carry yourself in a stately and unafraid manner.
You are secure knowing there are a multitude of choices available in life, so there is no need to be reactive. In being emotionally intelligent you have the ability to keep your eyes on the bigger picture turning obstacles into opportunities. Life isn't all about you, in fact, you prefer to celebrate the accomplishments of others as much as your own. You are proud of who you are but have no need to add histrionics to your success. Most of the time you prefer being in the background, working hard and allowing your success speak for itself.
You are sensitive and want the best for everyone. You do not see yourself above others as you are secure enough in yourself that the trap of comparison doesn't interest you. You enjoy your life for what it is and do not feel entitled to more without the commensurate work to back it up. People gravitate towards what is real. You are simple, upfront, gentle, but direct in the 'being' of who you are.
You are content to live life patiently and know how to wait well. For you life is about being authentic and following your heart and nothing else.
You are someone others can depend upon as you have no ulterior motives. You are relationship oriented not agenda oriented. You believe the truth is the only path to success and deep intimacy. You do not change who you are based on who you are with. You are who you are and your priority in life is to feel happy and satisfied. There is nothing more appealing to others than to be in the presence of a loving person. When you love yourself you have endless love to give. For you love is a verb and it is expresses itself through loving kindness, touch, your smile and sense of inner joy and vitality.
Be the girl who sees the best in people, but does not ignore the worst. Be the girl that can take her own advice. The 50 Best Qualities A Modern Girl Should Have is cataloged in Girls, Inspirational, Life, Life Lessons, Self-Esteem, Self-Improvement, Women, Womens Style. When a young lady or girl shows an interest in those that are broken physically, crushed mentally, or lost spiritually (sometimes, it can be a combination of all these emotions at the same time); it generates compassion that God showed to us. The best qualities in a woman are important to consider when choosing or seeking a mate and even when beginning a friendship. The best qualities in women could also be the best qualities in a person, but tweaked for qualities a woman should have.